tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post5368315437587100412..comments2023-08-26T22:03:29.511+08:00Comments on Breathe a little...Slow down...: A Letter To My BlogPrincess Ribbonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comBlogger43125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-49701590590925238152014-04-28T15:09:28.703+08:002014-04-28T15:09:28.703+08:00i think people really need to learn the lesson of ...i think people really need to learn the lesson of FIGHTING TEMPTATION but it's not for you to teach them. i wouldn't know what to say to a friend like this either. smh. sgrmse.http://www.hanabisky.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-1283865261351065362014-03-01T12:08:12.015+08:002014-03-01T12:08:12.015+08:00Well, it had happened and since now it's over,...Well, it had happened and since now it's over, your friend has to accept it. Time will heal her wound. But at the meantime, she needs someone like you to keep listening to her and to encourage her about her own family. <br /><br />Keep up your concern for her. She needs you.wennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535757998884625545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-54899014408889192652014-02-28T15:19:36.327+08:002014-02-28T15:19:36.327+08:00Elo, angeline, thanks for dropping by my blog. Err...Elo, angeline, thanks for dropping by my blog. Err, you can't view most of my posts? Cannot be wor.. Hmm, weird. I am worried also if you said you can't view my blog, hmm, dunno what should I do leh, coz I'm not IT expert wor..<br /><br />I also stalk your blog quite often, just only started to comment bit by bit recently.. Before I got to know SK I stalked your blog before, just that I didnt comment only..<br /><br />Playing with people's feelings is very dangerous..I wouldn't want that to happen to me, but like TM said, anything can happen, which I agree, well, like you said most important we trust our spouse and do our part as wife & mommy and live happily ever after lah, keke..Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-2690210587692303382014-02-28T14:35:46.015+08:002014-02-28T14:35:46.015+08:00Dear, most of your I can't view one...don'...Dear, most of your I can't view one...don't know why.. too slow to load?...when I click it, it said URL problem wor...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07710484000863586238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-39051521619392094352014-02-28T14:02:13.097+08:002014-02-28T14:02:13.097+08:00Have a nice weekend dear...Have a nice weekend dear...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07710484000863586238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-15896047812387606092014-02-28T13:58:43.579+08:002014-02-28T13:58:43.579+08:00Nasi sudah jadi bubur, no one we could blame... I&...Nasi sudah jadi bubur, no one we could blame... I'm glad to know she tries very hard to recover, at least I know she felt regret on what she has been done. If she wants to gain confident again, then she should know the right way to move forward and start a new life...<br />I wonder what will happen if she tells her husband. Better don't keep it silence will it be better for her and her family?...I'm worried too.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07710484000863586238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-742206285901428682014-02-28T13:55:20.054+08:002014-02-28T13:55:20.054+08:00I guess both got problem. If they love their own f...I guess both got problem. If they love their own family each other won't be playing this game. You think "Hou wan meh" this kind of thing. Not only you, I've heard a few versions like this. Until I feel scary too.. would you? As long as both husband and wife trust each other and believes in each other, nothing will happen like this. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07710484000863586238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-18183978819568910752014-02-28T13:51:30.272+08:002014-02-28T13:51:30.272+08:00Halo mummy LoiuzYee, anything could happen... I ca...Halo mummy LoiuzYee, anything could happen... I came your palce once a while... But this topic really attract me to type on the keyboard and jot down some comments...heheheAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07710484000863586238noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-35372986278852222802014-02-28T08:59:50.418+08:002014-02-28T08:59:50.418+08:00Whoa, you are also very modern and open wor, keke....Whoa, you are also very modern and open wor, keke.. <br />I am (trying to be) open (when I'm listening) to her also, I told her the thing has happened, her mistake was she fell in love, now she has to look forward. There's no right or wrong, it has already happened, gawd, just move forward and recover (and keep this secret with her to the grave).. Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-30658154240672938762014-02-28T08:56:34.794+08:002014-02-28T08:56:34.794+08:00Dunia zaman moden bah!!!Dunia zaman moden bah!!!suituapuihttp://suituapui.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-31951456689876778682014-02-28T07:28:19.306+08:002014-02-28T07:28:19.306+08:00He ended the affair. He asked her to let go and re...He ended the affair. He asked her to let go and remain as normal friends. This, she cannot accept because she was so loved by him once, and now, it's all gone, she wanted "it" back, but I told her it's wrong. <br /><br />I can relate, I can feel her, coz I'm a woman too, I understand how it feels to to crazily loved (and chased) by someone, but I told her before it's too late or anything happens to her (or his) family, just let go. She wouldn't want his wife to march up to her office and splash her with acid or give her a slap in front of all her colleagues right? This seems to bring some sense into her brain.<br /><br />He is not supposed to exist in her life in the first place.Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-21247570672671102592014-02-27T23:31:57.884+08:002014-02-27T23:31:57.884+08:00I suppose both parties hardly spend time with thei...I suppose both parties hardly spend time with their spouse. So when one party starts to show concern to the other, both could easily be trapped into an affair. Unless both really stick to their game and just be friends.<br /><br />Maybe your friend needs to look into her own life and think of what she really wants in life. In this way, she might be able to see the reality of her affair. She should asks herself, "Is it worthwhile?"wennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535757998884625545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-19381109817984461372014-02-27T17:10:54.289+08:002014-02-27T17:10:54.289+08:00mana ada Form 6 in 1998?? that year i graduated fr...mana ada Form 6 in 1998?? that year i graduated from Uni lah.. see, Uncle so much older than you leh Siu Mui Mui~~ :D[SK]https://www.blogger.com/profile/01863360136363789539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-36630749946652783682014-02-27T17:08:56.973+08:002014-02-27T17:08:56.973+08:00Not worth it, hor? I think she regret this for the...Not worth it, hor? I think she regret this for the rest of her life. You just be there for her lah. Listen while she pour out her feelings. Maybe she will feel better talking and letting out her feelings. I dare not imagine what would happen if her hubby found out.PHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11010771600736676432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-42097687031455003902014-02-27T16:05:14.135+08:002014-02-27T16:05:14.135+08:00Eh, hello, what you mean I'm "too young&q...Eh, hello, what you mean I'm "too young" to know about all these radio program? I'm younger than you 1 or 2 years only ok.. Coz in 1998, you were in Form 6 kan? You blogged about it and also posted your photos in FB, remember? And you said you were in Upper (or lower) 6? I'm only younger than you 1 year ok? Maybe same age timmm..Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-37048512315673139382014-02-27T16:03:21.362+08:002014-02-27T16:03:21.362+08:00Yep agree.. Wah for the first time, you wrote some...Yep agree.. Wah for the first time, you wrote something serious and really put your shoes into it to "feel" the situation wor.. Yes, it's the "chor luen" punyer feel la, that made her fell into the "trap".. When a guy is chasing you ahh, you are full of "oi ching chi yoon" (love potion), so I guess she wanted it everyday (not sex, ok), and in the end, sendiri pun jatuh cinta lor..Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-68983207601090624672014-02-27T16:00:37.517+08:002014-02-27T16:00:37.517+08:00OMG, you make me laugh again.. Told you my blog is...OMG, you make me laugh again.. Told you my blog is a rojak blog, I blog about everything.. From getting pregnant to crazy parenting to simple ABC soup, cooking, baking, then little bit kun-yam-ping at work, nonsense, and now, "radio deejay mailbox" program pulak.. Interesting hor? Macam macam ada, baru best!Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-54752318141137190582014-02-27T15:58:37.051+08:002014-02-27T15:58:37.051+08:00That was exactly what I told her too. In the first...That was exactly what I told her too. In the first place, please try to remember the day when you fell in love with your husband and want him til "oi sang oi sei" (want to live want to die)..Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-29837380398051453172014-02-27T15:57:24.357+08:002014-02-27T15:57:24.357+08:00I like your "meletup letup" word.. I thi...I like your "meletup letup" word.. I think it's this "thrill" she was talking about.. You know, the heart-beating-fast, like "chor luen" (first love) feeling (I also like, to be really honest).. All girls like to be chased, all girls like to be loved, all girls want attention, but her mistake was, (I'm being very open minded about this), she put her feelings and emotions into this knowing very well this is going nowhere from day1. She was very sure this was just a "game" and wanted to "experience" it for once, but she fell in love, which was wrong. Nobody can help her, she has to face it and move on. I like your comment.Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-46932752085970690042014-02-27T15:54:47.217+08:002014-02-27T15:54:47.217+08:00mjh lor, tell her, even after a holiday we also ne...mjh lor, tell her, even after a holiday we also need time to recover from the excitement and then go back to normal life.. so what she need to do is also the same lah.. soon she will be getting it over like the other man did..[SK]https://www.blogger.com/profile/01863360136363789539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-26177172477649640022014-02-27T15:53:55.901+08:002014-02-27T15:53:55.901+08:00Yep, agree, I can only listen. Dare not give so mu...Yep, agree, I can only listen. Dare not give so much advise. Scared backfire pulak..Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-62435513963474292512014-02-27T15:53:34.838+08:002014-02-27T15:53:34.838+08:00neh, like those radio program, the DJ always talk ...neh, like those radio program, the DJ always talk in very soft and sexy tone.. they have these "mailbox" program where people would write in to tell their stories, and the DJ will give advice lor.. maybe you are too young to know about all these old school radio program :p[SK]https://www.blogger.com/profile/01863360136363789539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-71430211054835308942014-02-27T15:52:54.922+08:002014-02-27T15:52:54.922+08:00I truly agree with you reana.. Paper cannot cover ...I truly agree with you reana.. Paper cannot cover the fire forever, and before it's too late, I think it's good she pulled her feet out now from the "quick sand".. I think it's the "transition period" that is killing her now.. Noone else can help her but herself.. I promised to pickup her call anytime she feels like talking to anyone :)Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-28416290641698322162014-02-27T15:52:02.090+08:002014-02-27T15:52:02.090+08:00many times it's because of the sudden emptines...many times it's because of the sudden emptiness and also the sudden crush lah.. think properly and judge with a rational mind but not an emotional one.. nothing much i can say lah, because that's your friend mah, of course we also hope she would think about responsibility to her man and her daughter also, because her world is not only herself alone.. it's a many facet thing when it comes to relationships.. so from many angles and perspective, every one has to be considered to make a balance lor.. :)[SK]https://www.blogger.com/profile/01863360136363789539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-59443884601293001882014-02-27T15:50:35.346+08:002014-02-27T15:50:35.346+08:00For a second, I don't understand your first se...For a second, I don't understand your first sentence lah.. Eh, I wana laugh at your comments today la, but I must pretend cannot laugh, coz I feel bad laughing la.. You see all the comments today, all very "jing king" and wana help my friend one, so I cannot laugh lah ok..<br />Eh, what's the meaning of mailbox time?Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.com