tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post8540622262443572990..comments2023-08-26T22:03:29.511+08:00Comments on Breathe a little...Slow down...: What Choice Do I Have?Princess Ribbonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-72182200359578423992014-02-25T12:18:14.869+08:002014-02-25T12:18:14.869+08:00guai la....kasi u one gula gula.....:pguai la....kasi u one gula gula.....:pSmall Kucinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06420461345191241920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-68662459657837196782014-02-25T09:36:48.174+08:002014-02-25T09:36:48.174+08:00Already :)Already :)Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-70308772652290931712014-02-25T09:27:04.990+08:002014-02-25T09:27:04.990+08:00Four days jor...update post ...:pFour days jor...update post ...:pSmall Kucinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06420461345191241920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-31790524617357999402014-02-21T13:51:26.066+08:002014-02-21T13:51:26.066+08:00Eh apasal you mohon maaf pulak? Where got tersalah...Eh apasal you mohon maaf pulak? Where got tersalah cakap oohh?Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-43022795337745208362014-02-21T12:49:15.576+08:002014-02-21T12:49:15.576+08:00one suggestion...I think there is some indon or wh...one suggestion...I think there is some indon or what maid that comes in the morning and go back at evening. Have you considered that? Maybe hire one of such service then put at your mom place. same time maid take care of the kids and your mom jadi director. can also help out your mom in housework. The amount of money you pay to baby sitter for both maybe able to hire that maid leh. Check around maid agency and see.<br /><br />mohon maaf ah if i tersalah cakap<br /><br />Small Kucinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06420461345191241920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-64229186253302570902014-02-21T12:46:39.834+08:002014-02-21T12:46:39.834+08:00I am a SAHM . People ask me to jaga anak I also do...I am a SAHM . People ask me to jaga anak I also dont want coz it's not easy to take care of kid leh. <br /><br />Especially babies coz they need a lot of attention. As we grow older, we also no energy jor. <br /><br />Well, now may seems bleak la. Hopefully will be able to find a babysitter la. Then your mom will be more relax.Small Kucinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06420461345191241920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-58148583040512020892014-02-21T12:43:20.307+08:002014-02-21T12:43:20.307+08:00very stress about kids punya lehvery stress about kids punya lehSmall Kucinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06420461345191241920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-41229827894517218812014-02-21T12:43:03.390+08:002014-02-21T12:43:03.390+08:00Ooo you stopped. Good la. Ooo you stopped. Good la. Small Kucinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06420461345191241920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-58265806488197927932014-02-21T12:41:33.849+08:002014-02-21T12:41:33.849+08:00The nanny sound scray. better not send them there
...The nanny sound scray. better not send them there<br />Small Kucinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06420461345191241920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-64684468354404112852014-02-21T12:39:36.880+08:002014-02-21T12:39:36.880+08:00mak oi...i hve to open to tab liaomak oi...i hve to open to tab liaoSmall Kucinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06420461345191241920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-33775093308961063302014-02-21T11:12:59.755+08:002014-02-21T11:12:59.755+08:00I feel exactly the same. She should understand and...I feel exactly the same. She should understand and not stressing me further. She was the one who asked me to take the baby away asap to let her jaga and now she is also the one hinting whether or not I have found a nanny... Haiz... She's the only option right now.. I hope she will stop asking me about the nanny... Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-11811866217157691762014-02-21T11:03:07.933+08:002014-02-21T11:03:07.933+08:00So sorry to read yourpredicament. Your mum should ...So sorry to read yourpredicament. Your mum should understand and help you, not stressing you further.<br /><br />Hope you find a better nanny soon. Good luck and stay positive, my dear.Rose worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02104898697123799249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-60501677114253528792014-02-21T09:45:42.623+08:002014-02-21T09:45:42.623+08:00Hope you find a reliable nanny soon... my two sons...Hope you find a reliable nanny soon... my two sons are also taken care of babysitters though I have mother-in-law and mother around that time... but I know my kids are too energetic for them so I didn't impose... this is the problem every working parents have to face... babysitters are SO expensive nowadays! I heard KL standard, RM800 for daytime to 1K? Really.... my time RM250 and that also I ang ang sang.. hahaha... well, my days are long ago... :)Reanaclairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01716477622054835019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-81936841637411378352014-02-21T08:29:45.510+08:002014-02-21T08:29:45.510+08:00Oh yes, SK's a humorous blogger.. A bit crazy ...Oh yes, SK's a humorous blogger.. A bit crazy sometimes, but I like!<br />I started stalking his blog last year after I found out his blog from Meow's blog rolls..<br />Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-47072722989402126882014-02-21T08:28:06.002+08:002014-02-21T08:28:06.002+08:00Morning Phong Hong. Am replying the comments one b...Morning Phong Hong. Am replying the comments one by one, and I saw yours now.<br />You are early today. <br /><br />Thank you for reading my long-winded story. I hate to bore readers with personal issues.. Like I've said, I prefer to just stick to my rojak cooking, simple baking, lazy parenting style, some office flirting and other nonsense.. But this one, gosh, I need to rant, I need this, and I so need to see the comments.. <br /><br />Mum's the only option now. I got no choice. I'm gonna be freaking frank for once. I will "sik ji seong" and "zha zha dai dai" (pretend) and "ya yat kor ya yat" (each passing day).. I will find a solution (I told you I have my plans right), just not now. I need to wait until baby is sssssssssssslightly bigger first..Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-28255883050994536522014-02-21T08:23:41.349+08:002014-02-21T08:23:41.349+08:00Yep, I know you've "been there, done that...Yep, I know you've "been there, done that", maybe my problem is not a big problem, like TM said. But right now, at this moment, at this point of time, I'm really stressed and worried, haih..<br /><br />But currently, mum's the only option. I will stick to her nomatter what, and until I can find a nanny. But I know that's not gonna be anytime soon.Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-27503042171590187762014-02-21T08:20:59.903+08:002014-02-21T08:20:59.903+08:00Aiyoh, you should "know" me by now, I wo...Aiyoh, you should "know" me by now, I won't think you are too gossip or what la.. In fact I like reading you all punyer comments..<br /><br />My mum leh, like you said very modern.. Not those who likes to sit at home and "chau suin" (jaga cucu) type.. Sometimes I don't know what she is thinking also.. Previously, she so gian wana takecare Kenzie, now she can takecare of baby G also she complaint.. I guess she wants the easy way, as Kenzie is easier to takecare.. Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-11149497107650479612014-02-21T08:15:57.780+08:002014-02-21T08:15:57.780+08:00I like reading your comments.. Feels like home.. I...I like reading your comments.. Feels like home.. I know where you are coming from.. Afterall, you've "been here, done that".. <br /><br />People scolded me for only taking actions now. They question me, why I still "yan" this nanny for 2-3 years (from Kenzie's time until baby G's time, baby G was 9 months old when we took him away from her).. From day1 the nanny acted strange and kept saying there's "people" coming into the house to steal her things, then I should have taken actions and grabbed my baby back.. But I still let it go on becoz I "tham fong pin"..If you un what I mean..<br /><br />I didn't really talk about this with mum..I know my mum and her style.. If I talk to her and ask her can she cope, is she tired, yada yada, she will say "You bukannya nak ambil balik baby, what for you ask me these"... Sigh, in the meantime, he's the only help I have. She promised will look after baby until I find a nanny..Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-2517342309236714832014-02-21T08:07:49.731+08:002014-02-21T08:07:49.731+08:00Hey Louiz! I really sympathize with you lah and I ...Hey Louiz! I really sympathize with you lah and I salute you and all working mothers! I know you all have to cope with so much stress - works stress, home stress and all the works. Kesian! I think your mum is the "modern" type lah, come to think of it can't really blame her. Looking after a baby is very involved and maybe interrupt with her routine. Some grandma happily jaga cucu but some want to have more time for themselves after retirement. Finding a good realiable nanny is hard. Very susah to trust someone to look after your baby. I hope that you can find one and can have peace of mind. Good luck, Louiz and stay cool! BTW this SK fellow is very entertaining with his comments :DPHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11010771600736676432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-4683143767518148372014-02-21T08:01:46.348+08:002014-02-21T08:01:46.348+08:00Aiyoh, the nanny has depression lor.. Actually, sh...Aiyoh, the nanny has depression lor.. Actually, she behaves like this for the past 2 years liao.. But that time, not so serious until like this.. That time, she only mentions "people" coming into the house to steal her things, or the neighbor on top very noisy, that's all.. Didn't mention ghosts and all..<br />I "yan" her for 2 years liao and put my kid's life in risk.. That day was the last straw as she is getting worse.. Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-25366098434740497222014-02-21T07:58:01.986+08:002014-02-21T07:58:01.986+08:00Kam ngam geh.. When I was writing this post, I was...Kam ngam geh.. When I was writing this post, I was thinking in my mind "Hmm, how nice if I know how to hide some portion of the long-winded stories like SK, if people wana read can click continue or read on, if not they can just skip and go straight to the nanny's story"... Aiyoh, you want me to beg you meh? Manja you can or not? We meet up one day, you bring mai your laptop out, I give you flowers and belanja you 1 glass of teh ping, then you teach me ok?Princess Ribbonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08855617224242040207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-25776668395126145082014-02-20T23:29:56.662+08:002014-02-20T23:29:56.662+08:00I understand what you are going through. I had bee...I understand what you are going through. I had been in your shoes before. I had baby sitters problems too. If I were to tell you my story, I guess you are way better than me. <br />anyway, problems can be solved. Don't worry too much. Find a solution as you have got no choice. As a parent, we need to be responsible for whatever decision we made.<br />Hope you can cope with the stress and all the best.wennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01535757998884625545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-33092145359483874122014-02-20T21:52:49.840+08:002014-02-20T21:52:49.840+08:00ooopsss, sorry ah!! am i too gossip and didn't...ooopsss, sorry ah!! am i too gossip and didn't actually understand your rantings?? errr, okay lah, i know your situation and caught in a predicament on how to best make arrangement for your kids.. but your mom also quite funny lah, she can whatsapp like a youngsters!! and after seeing her photo on your facebook, i can really say she is such a modern mom!! i think she probably was more concerned about you than wanted to nag you all the time lah, think from the positive side to make your life happier lah.. that's all i wanted to say, i know you have lots to think about and to plan, but stay positive and throw away all the negativity, like how you act like a "sampaat woman" in my blog, hahaha.. <br /><br />ok, i know i am not constructive at all, but then i am listening and i guess that's all you want by finally taking the courage to publish this post.. support you mentally lah, ganbatte ne!! :)[SK]https://www.blogger.com/profile/01863360136363789539noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-26710921754097117312014-02-20T21:49:18.226+08:002014-02-20T21:49:18.226+08:00Hi Louiz, this is the problem every couple is faci...Hi Louiz, this is the problem every couple is facing when they have kids and both parents are working especially with the high standard of living now in our country. I sympathize with you especially when you described the "nanny" who feels there are ghosts around the house. If I were you, I would have taken my baby back the moment she mentioned ghosts in the house.. LOL.. call me paranoid!<br />As a mother with 3 grown up kids now, I also understand how your mom feels... one side, you are her daughter and she sure would like to help you all she could to ease your burden. On the other hand, taking care of a baby whom she had just taken over, is also quite tiring for her. I take it that she didn't take care of your baby G when he was just a baby then, right? So it might be quite a handful for her to start to understand Baby G habits and all. <br />Maybe you should talk it over with her, ask her whether it is too "taxing" for her to take care 24 hours from Monday to Friday... anyone helping her out in the house? Well, a mother and a daughter, sure no "kak yeh sau" so just "talk it over" and see what's the best solution... '<br />Just my two cents... hope you don't mind... Reanaclairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01716477622054835019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2492528731428103081.post-4501975445768251612014-02-20T21:48:22.213+08:002014-02-20T21:48:22.213+08:00okay, so the thing is, you told such a long story ...okay, so the thing is, you told such a long story but you never even tell a single bit of the thing that i guess most of us are interested to know.. "WHAT HAPPENED TO THE NANNY??", i guess everyone was trying to ask this after they read the 8th and 9th paragraph, but then potong stim lah, while we were expecting to hear some thing, you said you are not going to tell further.. so "diu yan" (okay, i mean suspense, not f**k people you are thinking) lah.. <br /><br />really wanted to know why suddenly the nanny behaved like this?? always "yee sun yee gwai" huh?? or was she actually hinting something?? aiyoh, now this one really arouse my curiosity lah.. quick, share with us in your next post lah.. i think all the "pat gwah" readers are more interested to know the old nanny than the new nanny you are going to find~~ :D[SK]https://www.blogger.com/profile/01863360136363789539noreply@blogger.com