Somebody in the office has been acting really cold to me out of a sudden.
If you are reading this, you know who you are.
Your copyright, I know - We are in the middle of something, you just stop and cut off halfway.
That's just plain rude. That's so not you.
That's just plain rude. That's so not you.
I made initiatives (to chat). I made effort (to ask what's wrong). Don't say I didn't.
But you cut off just like that. No replies. Nothing.
I hate no-replies.
I don't like.
Readers, don't get me wrong. It's not an affair. It's not even flirting, haha (Though I'm talking like it's one).
It's pure office related. Nothing personal.
He is a sweet guy. Approachable. Helpful. Reliable.
I know I can go to him if I need help.
He would help if he could. And he did. All I have to do is just ask.
I thank you for what you have done.
Your colleague sounds like an ok guy but what happened? Why suddenly he stop talking to you? Something offended him? May he tell you what's wrong. Not nice to have cold war in office.
ReplyDeleteHe's an ok guy, really..Well, I went over and asked him what's wrong, he just answered "Bz".. Hmm..
DeleteYour colleague read your blog?
ReplyDeleteNobody knows my blog. Not even my hubby. This colleague found out abt my blog when I left my html footprints in his traffic life feed when I read his blog. But he was neutral, quiet person, doesn't really bother to read all my posts though..
DeleteActually...is okay, I always get no replies from a lot of people...I'm already get used to it...but serious at first of course I was mad...but later on...just let it be!!! Chill!!! =]
ReplyDeleteAm learning to let go and chill now :)
DeleteHappy Monday blue..
It is so rare that you post in your blog at this hour! It is even more rare that I read blogs at this hour!! Hey why today the atmosphere is funny? I will never allow my colleagues or personal friends or relatives to read my blog as they will bring disaster. Muahahahaha
ReplyDeleteSo actually bloggers get to know my life and trips in full details with photos which I never post in FB. The reason is that many of my friends and relatives could be shallow minded sometimes after seeing my photos. Bloggers and public are better readers because they will judge me differently. So learn from this, draw a line with working and blogging friends. We cannot get too close and share everything in life with everyone because it won't work out well.
Same with TM, i don't share my link in FB about my blog as my relatives is in FB, my relatives do not know about my blog... keke...
DeleteNobody knows my blog. This colleague doesnt really read all my posts. He is a quiet person. Neutral.
DeleteWhat happened to you and your colleague is not every serious but due to the ego & pride, he snapped and walked away while you decided to vent and post here. Hey you both behave really like kids and should sit over coffee and talk like adults. Life is so precious and time flies so fast. Time and tide waits for no man. Look at the bigger area of the white paper and not focus on the tiny black spot. Good luck to your colleague!
ReplyDeletemaybe just like kids in school only lah.. today i don't want to friend you, but then tomorrow become best friends again.. :)
DeleteAt first he doesn't know my blog. But I left my html prints thru his daily live traffic feed when I read his blog! So he found out my blog.
ReplyDeleteooopsss.. BOCOR already now!! Princess Ribbon will soon become a famous blogger in her office!!! :p
DeleteSigh, I overlooked this, and left my prints there.. How? But he's a quiet person, and I know he won't tell others about my blog.. Nobody bothers in the office, really.. Nobody blogs too.. Just me and him..
Deleteouccchhhh.....ur words so pedas...hahaha! luckily I m not ur colleague. Cold war is not good for working environment...it later leads to office politic...Hate it so mch! but anyhow, why not trying to send him an email asking what's the problem? ranting here might not be a solution....
ReplyDeletecheer up ;-)
My words not pedas la.. I'm a very nice person in the office :)
Deletewah, suddenly publish a post at this hour!! so rare lah, must be very very very "ding mmm soon" and wanted to express and release your anger through blogging?? haha.. anyway, though i don't quite understand what you are trying to say.. of course lah, i understand you cannot draw doll also draw intestines, and i also more understand that i am not so "jing ling" that i could read the meaning behind lah.. anyway again, a very pedas post using lots of tajam words, hahahaha, don't ever "daak jui" woman is what i can learn from this post, hehehe~~
ReplyDeleteEh where got pedas post and tajam words? All my words very decent & polite wor..
Deletethe way you write the post mah~~ :p
DeleteSay something...ask...face to face. If it can't be resolved, what to do? Life's like that. It takes all kinds to make the world.
ReplyDeleteI asked.. Face to face.. He said nothing's wrong, he's just bz.. Hmm...
DeleteHmm, may be there's some misunderstanding? Or something happened to him?
ReplyDeletePerhaps give both of you some times... You tried your best, you did what you could already. Take it easy ya!
Time shall heal? Ok, shall wait for time to pass then..
DeleteYour story more tension than watching Korean Drama. Tomorrow update us the Day 2 scene ok. Hope got happy ending drinking coffee.
ReplyDeleteToday no scene 2 part 2.. On mc today, not going to work.. keke..
DeleteErrr ... u said something wrong to him ? Anyway guys no problem la... can settle vey fast.
ReplyDeleteAgree, I'm not scared.. "Mei keng guo"... hahahaha.. Guys very easy to settle one la..
DeleteAiks, my twin posted another post so fast? Your colleague just suddenly so cold with no reason? I think it is his own problem lah. Maybe he feel shy when he found out you read his blog? Quite uncomfortable when colleague act like that. It is better if can talk it out but that is if the other party is willing to talk. Hope this situation cools off.
ReplyDeleteYou are right, the other party must be willing to talk also ma.. If I ask one sentence, he answer one sentence, potong my stim only, better don't talk..
DeleteHmmm...sounds serious. Why would he suddenly cut you off like that? Maybe have some misunderstanding?
ReplyDeleteTry and talk face to face la. after all both are adults . Not like small kids i dont friend you you dont friend me.
DeleteMeow, benci ahh aku!
DeleteYeah, something must be bugging him... but as Chris said, guys are ok one.. very fast moe yeh... but I am like you, I don't like silent treatment, but I have a few colleagues who are like this too... moe thuen thuen mmm choi yan... dont know what happened.. I prefer to settle indifferences there and then.. no need to harbour anger or grudges inside.. very sun foo one..
ReplyDeleteHai wor, really mou tuin tuin ger wor.. You really understand me.. Really chisin one.. I really don't like..
DeleteHmm, sweetie pie don't get moody lar k... everyhting should be fine. Probably is not you bothering him and maybe he got other problem that he don't feel like talking...SO he keeps the conversation short and so on.
ReplyDeleteFor me I'll be like you, when we feel something is not right. We actually will ask back our ownself whether or why he acts this way and so on???.... I can feel the feeling you're having right now... me too. Worried right?
DeleteMou si geh.... mm sai tham sam...
DeleteNgo du hei mong mou si.. Not a big deal, not a big matter, but becoz we are colleagues and we need to face each other everyday..
DeleteMust be some misunderstanding otherwise he wouldnt act cold toward you.
ReplyDeleteHope everything gets well soon.
Hope so, thanks Rose..
DeleteHow old is he ? As a mature person, we should have communication instead of cold war. Well, sometimes, adult can also act like a child. Every thing will soon going to be ok......
ReplyDeleteYounger than me a few years, but he's quite mature.. Yes I feel he's acting like a big child..
DeleteBut just in case people are reading these comments today, just to let you know the issue has been solved.. Hehe..